Children thrive in predictable environments, making transitions like relocation, starting a new school, parents' divorce, or the arrival of a new sibling challenging. Children who are experiencing huge life changes for the first time may require additional assistance in processing their emotions, comprehending the nature of the transition at hand, and developing appropriate coping mechanisms.
As a daycare provider, you can be their rock and help them navigate through the change. Use one of the methods outlined below to help enhance your connection and communication with the children. They will feel more secure, more able to adapt, and more resilient if you employ these methods.
Communicating With Children: Strategies for Supporting Children through Transitions
Have you noticed a child having trouble controlling intense feelings? They might be going through a change at home, school, or daycare. Here are some tips and tricks to help the little one navigate the change and their feelings.
1. Give Time to Prepare
Sudden transitions are generally more challenging for both adults and children. However, if you have the chance to prepare the child for the upcoming shift, you should give them as much notice as possible. This will give them a chance to adjust to the new situation. Ease the youngster into new experiences.
For example, if they are new to the daycare, it's important to show them around the new place and get them acquainted with their teacher early on. Explain to them what a normal day is like. You can use Daycare posters and signs, such as the First Day of Daycare Sign, to put them at ease.
2. Talk about the Situation
Talk about the situation openly and positively. Children learn to master situations by asking questions, even if it's the same topic over and over again. Answer their questions, but remember to keep your responses short, age-appropriate, and upbeat. If you don't know the answer, be honest and let them know.
3. Involve Parents as Much as You Can
It is essential to involve parents and have discussions regarding any situation that might affect their child. Use Parent Surveys to ensure parents that you have all the information you need. You should also use Daily Report Forms and Daily Daycare Schedules to communicate with parents. Here is a list of daycare forms you can use to maintain steady communication with parents.
4. Guiding through the Grief
If a child is experiencing a recent change in their life, whether it be a move or a loss of a relative, it is important to listen to them and sort out their feelings. Don't be too quick to divert the topic. Instead, accept the feelings, and emphasize the positive aspects of the situation. The goal is to gently guide them through their feelings of loss and help them adjust.
5. Read Together
One method to restore a sense of connection, safety, and calm is to read children's picture books together. Try reading a variety of books, including a few that are relevant to their circumstances. Look for stories in which adults and children work together to solve problems.
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These tips will assist you in building connections and communicating with children going through any changes in life. Become a Standout Daycare Member to connect with an extensive daycare network and receive the resources and training you need to ensure the physical and emotional wellbeing of children as a daycare provider. Don't forget to leave a comment below to tell us how you do it at your daycare!
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